In a world full of deadlines, appointments, and obligations, do you sometimes set unrealistic expectations for your children with the hope of success?
In today’s fast-paced and hectic world, hurrying has become an integral part of our lives. You’ve probably heard the saying, “Being a mom is a full-time job.” But being a mom is equivalent to two and a half full-time jobs, according to statistics. No wonder we are always in a hurry! God gave us 24 hours a day – so it must be enough time. He would never give us less than what we need. In fact, according to Philippians 4:19, we are told that God will meet all our needs, even in hard times and in suffering. The Lord’s prayer states, “Thy kingdom come thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven.” Do you think anyone in heaven is hurrying around and stressed out to the max? Or are they peacefully relying on the Father for all their needs?
James 5:7-12 states, “Be patient, then, brothers and sisters, until the Lord’s coming. See how the farmer waits for the land to yield its valuable crop, patiently waiting for the autumn and spring rains. You too, be patient and stand firm, because the Lord’s coming is near.”
During this episode, Lee Ann elaborates on the following tips to help, guide, and support families that feel like they are always in a hurry:
- Prioritize: Identify the most important things to you and prioritize them accordingly.
- Set realistic expectations: Avoid setting unrealistic expectations for yourself.
- Plan ahead: Planning and being organized can help you avoid unnecessary stress.
- Have the kids do more – sometimes, we think we must do everything.
- Make time to dance with your kids, sings songs, play games, tell jokes, cook meals, read books, take a nature walk, watch the sun rise and set, and count the stars.
Hurrying is a habit we need to break. It’s okay to have some days when you need to hurry – but too much hurrying brings worry and stress. We can eliminate hurrying from our families’ lives and enjoy more peaceful and fulfilling days!
Resources mentioned:
- The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry, by Pastor John Mark Comer.
- “Ruthlessly Eliminate Hurry,” by Bill Gaultiere.
- “What Slowing Down Teaches You That Rushing Never Will,” by Amy Julia Becker.
- “Study Says Motherhood is Equivalent to Working 2.5 Full-time Jobs,” by WLWT5 News.
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